At Healing of Memories, we believe that every story needs a listener and that our traumas are connected to those of our families, our communities, and our nations.
Our pain is part of our collective past, and sharing our stories is the first step toward understanding and healing.
What is Healing of Memories?
The Institute of Healing of Memories has its roots in the turbulent era of apartheid in South Africa, a time marked by profound suffering and injustice. Founded in 1998 by Father Michael Lapsley, our organization was born from a deep need to address the emotional and psychological wounds inflicted by this oppressive system.
The target of a bomb attack that left him with no hands and one eye, his personal experience of trauma, and his unwavering commitment to justice inspired him to create a space where others could begin their journeys of healing. This vision led to the founding of the Institute of Healing of Memories.
From its inception, the Institute has been dedicated to healing the psychological and emotional scars left by apartheid and other forms of violence and oppression. Our workshop-based methodology provides a safe and supportive environment where individuals and communities can share their stories, confront their pain, and work toward reconciliation.

DESMOND TUTU & FATHER MICHAEL LAPSLEY
Who do we work with?
- Marginalized and discriminated minorities
- Those currently or formerly incarcerated in correctional facilities
- Military veterans and civilians dealing with emotional, spiritual and moral wounds of war
- Survivors of domestic and sexual violence or abuse
- Health workers and first responders
- Faith Communities
- Peacemakers and Justice Advocates
- Individuals and communities who have experienced trauma that continues to affect their lives
Where do we work?
Workshops have also been offered in Minnesota, Illinois and Oklahoma. Our cadre of trained facilitators live in various parts of the US and are available to offer workshops wherever invited.
IHOM-NA is part of the Healing of Memories Global network and collaborates with our parent organization Healing of Memories South Africa as well as Healing of Memories Luxembourg, Europe and partners in Canada, Asia, and other African nations.
Global Network partners have held workshops in over 22 countries around the globe.
