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At Healing of Memories, we believe that every story needs a listener and that our traumas are connected to those of our families, our communities, and our nations.

 

Our pain is part of our collective past, and sharing our stories is the first step toward understanding and healing.

What is Healing of Memories?

The Institute of Healing of Memories has its roots in the turbulent era of apartheid in South Africa, a time marked by profound suffering and injustice. Founded in 1998 by Father Michael Lapsley, our organization was born from a deep need to address the emotional and psychological wounds inflicted by this oppressive system.

The target of a bomb attack that left him with no hands and one eye, his personal experience of trauma, and his unwavering commitment to justice inspired him to create a space where others could begin their journeys of healing. This vision led to the founding of the Institute of Healing of Memories.

From its inception, the Institute has been dedicated to healing the psychological and emotional scars left by apartheid and other forms of violence and oppression. Our workshop-based methodology provides a safe and supportive environment where individuals and communities can share their stories, confront their pain, and work toward reconciliation.

Who do we work with?

Rooted in the core principles of social justice and peacemaking, Healing of Memories works with individuals, communities and organizations to support collective repair and understanding, including:
  • Marginalized and discriminated minorities
  • Those currently or formerly incarcerated in correctional facilities
  • Military veterans and civilians dealing with emotional, spiritual and moral wounds of war
  • Survivors of domestic and sexual violence or abuse
  • Health workers and first responders
  • Faith Communities
  • Peacemakers and Justice Advocates
  • Individuals and communities who have experienced trauma that continues to affect their lives

Where do we work?

IHOM-NA offers workshops throughout the USA and has ongoing programs in Arizona, California,New York, and Hawaii.

 Workshops have also been offered in Minnesota, Illinois and Oklahoma. Our cadre of trained facilitators live in various parts of the US and are available to offer workshops wherever invited.

IHOM-NA is part of the Healing of Memories Global network and collaborates with our parent organization Healing of Memories South Africa as well as  Healing of Memories Luxembourg, Europe and partners in Canada, Asia, and other African nations. 

Global Network partners have held workshops in over 22 countries around the globe.


Workshop Participant Testimonials

I found the experience cultivated a deep sense of empathy in me that was unexpected and profound. I also feel that telling my “story in such a safe space and witnessing others’ stories shifted something inside me and connected me in a way that felt genuine and deep.

I learned the technique of purging old memories of negative experiences and in the results having the ability of growing in the good in my heart, mind and soul.

This workshop has brought truth and clarity to my life.

I was empowered to view life as positive, to move ahead and not let the past overpower me.

I found that I’m really not alone in the journey. There are people like me and what happened to me does not define me.